Assisted living on long island, ny

Updated: 9/28/24

There are many communities for assisted living on Long Island, New York.  

There are more assisted living facilities on Long Island than other places in NY.

In New York there are two types of assisted living facilities. We urge you to ask the community you are interested in what type it is. You also should always ask to see their license papers and visit frequently before making decisions.

There is a huge variety of facilities to choose from in both Suffolk and Nassau counties.  You are sure to find one that is right for you or a loved one. 

The average cost of assisted living in New York state is $5850/mo. according to the Genworth.  This varies greatly depending on services required. This is above the national average.

Read about the variety of assisted living lifestyles and communities.

Suffolk County

Assisted Living and Independent Living

Typical respite room at Atria South Setauket

Independent Living Respite room at Atria South Setauket used for temporary accommodations for potential residents to try out or for caregivers to take a break.

Assisted Living only

Patchogue

McPeak's Adult Home

For fifty years affordably priced assisted living - Patchogue - Also rehab care available. 

Medford

The Medford Hamlet has medicaid (verify).

The Medford Hamlet - Medford - Assisted Living - Physical Therapy on site - activities, transportation, gym - private dining room for family get togethers,  Medicaid.

Northport

Dawn Hill Adult Home - 65 Lisa Drive, North Port, NY (631) 261-8088 Country area - assisted living (verify) - no website

East Northport

Fairlawn Adult Home - 301 Eighth Avenue, East Northport, NY (631) 757-7666 - 30 assisted living units

Port Jefferson

• Echo Arms Adult Home - 204 Patchogue Road, Port Jefferson Station, NY (631) 473-0166 - Smaller adult home of 49 units in beautiful area - no website

Huntington

Manor Haven Adult Home - 222 Columbia Street - Huntington Station, NY - (631) 549-0226 Smaller Adult home of 32 residences

Missionary Sisters of St. Benedict - 350 Cuba Hill Road - Huntington, NY - (631) 368-9528 - 60 units

Brookhaven

Brookhaven Town House for Adults - 111 Beaverdam Road - Brookhaven, NY (631) 286-2500 - 182 units Assisted living, Respite

Nesconset

Olsen Rest - Nesconset, NY (631) 588-5676 - 40 units

Bayshore

Open Gate Association Home for the Aged -36 South Clinton Avenue - Bay Shore, NY (631) 666-5203 - 24 units

Bayport

Pleasant Gardens Home for Adults - 396 Middle Road - Bayport, NY - (631) 472-1047 27 units

Ridge

Ridge Rest Home - Whiskey Road - Ridge, NY (631) 744-9781 - near Ridge Retirement Community 58 units

Lake Ronkonkoma

Rodden Home - 15 Wittridge Street - Lake Ronkonkoma - (631) 585-1906 23 units assisted living.

Wittridge Home for Adults - Wittridge Street - Lake Ronkonkoma - 631-588-4755 - 21 units

Holbrook

Sachem Adult Home - Holbrook, NY - (631) 588-4554 - 46 units assisted living.

Smithtown

Amber Court of Smithtown - Nesconset -  Assisted living - Also medicaid.  130 Lake Ave. South -  888-380-8801

(Also see under "Memory Care" section below new Whisper Woods in Smithtown with assisted living and memory care.)

Assisted Living with Skilled Nursing Available

Babylon

Best-kept secret: Babylon Beach House

Babylon Beach House

Babylon Beach House Interior

$ Babylon Beach House - Babylon - Family-owned and operated - Affordable pricing - one flat fee - Assisted Living - respite care any length - Hospice care available - Easy walking, no steps - weight monitoring - in-house salon/barber - A very nautical ambience throughout with spectacular water views.  (Verify information)

Ronkonkoma

The Lake Shore Adult Home - Ronkonkoma - By AmberAL - Assisted living, respite, hospice in-house, respite care after surgery/illness - Central Long Island location is convenient to everything including family in the area. Activities, recreation programs. On Lake Ronkonkoma for 35 years. 

Port Jefferson Station

Woodhaven Center of Care - Port Jefferson Station - Assisted living and nursing. For 30 years. Medicaid funding. Provides full time medical services . Most rooms shared. 

Center Moriches

$ South Bay Adult Home - Center Moriches, NY - Family-owned large estate on South Bay - 3 landscaped acres - very homey feeling and near The Hamptons area.  Meals, housekeeping, personal care - less intensive nursing than found in nursing home - (631) 878-0758 24 units of assisted living.  Medicaid.  Will take those with Alzheimer's if not wandering - there is a lake on the property.  Relatively low monthly fees.

South Bay also has Adult Daycare and Home Health Aides. 
33 Cottontail Run, Center Moriches - 631-878-0758

Stony Brook

Very nice Vets Home shown after snowstorm.

Long Island State Veterans Home - Services include: Medical/Nursing Services Rehabilitation Alzheimer's/Dementia Care End of Life Care Adult Day Health Care

When visiting this facility, I talked with the staff and came away with a positive feeling. The staff was caring to residents and visitors.  If you have military service, reach out to them for more information.  Check out the popular Adult Day Health Care program.  Widows and spouses of eligible vets can also apply (verify). Services include memory care (verify).  They have a very nice facility at: 100 Patriots Rd., Stony Brook - Call them for an appointment at 631-444-VETS

Memory Care Available

Smithtown assisted living and memory care

Whisper Woods by Benchmark - Assisted living and memory care community.  25A and River Heights Dr., Smithtown. Near St. Catherine's Hospital and nursing home.

Bay Shore

Atria Bay Shore solarium - enjoy sun without going outside in beautiful room.

Atria Bay Shore  - Bay Shore NY - Assisted Living, Independent and Memory Care program - Every Atria community is unique. This is a beautiful building, former estate - you must visit to appreciate the very upscale, refined lifestyle amenities - month to month rent.

We visited, enjoyed a lunch, tasted the fabulous food, and wrote this review:  See our Review of Atria Bay Shore and Atria South Setauket

Northport

Atria East Northport - Northport - Independent, Assisted living, memory care program and respite stays. Amenities include on-site physical therapy, pets welcome, Red Hat Society and more.

• The Arbors Assisted Living - 5 Communities in Suffolk and Nassau Counties - Assisted living and Alzheimer's and Memory care program "Safe Care." Personal assisted living with multi-tiered programs. Seniors have individual needs. Affordable pricing. Four communities in Suffolk County are: The Arbors at Bohemia, Bohemia; The Arbors at Hauppauge, Hauppauge; The Arbors at Islandia East and West in Islandia  

• The Bristal Communities in Suffolk County (also locations in Nassau County):
  

The Bristal East Northport
760 Larkfield Rd.
Independent, Assisted, Memory Care and Alzheimer's Adult Day Care
Studios, 1 and 2 bedrooms, Reflections Suites - (By the way, I noticed some nice restaurants and shopping within walking distance) 631-850-3923

Sayville

The Bristal Sayville

The Bristal Sayville - Independent, Assisted, Memory Care - Studios, 1 and 2-bedrooms, Reflections Studios - (LIRR a block away; lots of shops; on the South Shore)  129 Lakeland Avenue - 631-615-7381

Lake Grove

The Bristal Lake Grove (Newer facility in great location.) 2995 Middle Country Rd., Lake Grove - Assisted, Alzheimer's and Memory care on the North Shore.

Alzheimer's Day Care Programs in Suffolk County:

•  The Bristal East Northport: Reflections Memory Care Program 

• Also See: Under Nursing Care category, above, for eligible veterans: Long Island State Veterans Home for memory care, adult daycare, and nursing services.  

Suffolk County - Combination of Services - Offering some or all of the following: Independent, Assisted, Nursing, Memory Care

Melville

Brandywine Senior Living Melville, NY - elegant combination independent, assisted living and Alzheimer's and memory care. Fitness Center, landscaped walking paths - Butlers and gourmet dining.

Commack

• Gurwin Jewish-Fay J. Lindner Residences - Commack, NY Assisted Living - nursing home available as well as other programs for residents for home care, adult day care, short term rehab, Alzheimer's and memory care program.

• Fountaingate Gardens - On the campus of Gurwin Jewish for independent living continuum of care.

Greenport

The Shores at Peconic Landing - Greenport - Part of award-winning Peconic Landing Lifecare Community - Combination of services Independent, Assisted, nursing for continuum of care - Purchase cottages and apartments on Long Island sound. Beautiful East End Long Island location. 

South Setauket

The Vincent Bove Center at Jefferson Ferry Lifecare Community - Assisted living for Jefferson Ferry Lifecare Community for a continuum of care - combines independent, assisted living, skilled nursing. Indoor pool, spa, fitness center, and much more.

Lake Grove

• The Bristal at Lake Grove - Nearby shopping and dining at Smith Haven Mall in Lake Grove. Independent living, assisted living and memory care.  2995 Middle Country Rd., Lake Grove - Call to visit: 631-830-6636

Nassau County

Assisted Living and Independent Living Combination in nassau county

  The following offer independent and assisted living by Atria Senior Living Every Atria Facility is unique.  

Check their website for the many other outstanding features available at Atria.

• Atria Great Neck- Also offers short stays
• Atria Lynbrook - also offers short stays
• Atria Plainview 

Assisted Living primarily - Nassau County

• Amber Court Westbury - Medicaid-funded Assisted Living Program (ALP) - Assisted living - expanded care available for those who need it and allows aging in place - assistance with mild dementia - on-site Licensed Home Care Services Agency 




• Christian Fellowship House - Syosset - in a 72-room historic mansion near Glen Cove - since 1962 - nondenominational religious facility - low fat and low cholesterol meals - 12 acres - heated swim pool and other amenities.  
  
  
• The Regency at Glen Cove - Glen Cove - Enjoy assisted living and MediComfort well being program - spacious accommodations - elegant fine dining - limousine service to doctor's appts - the Regency's executive chef will provide "cooking light" demos for your senior organization - what a wonderful idea!  (Verify all information.)
  
  
• Helen Keller National Center - 111 Middle Neck Road Sands Point, NY (516) 944-8900 With aging vision and hearing loss diseases can come. For those 55+ who are deaf-blind. Go here for information and help.  
  
  
• Jones Manor on the Sound - Bayville - 46 units for seniors unable to live independently - AL/Daycare - semi private rooms - wooded area that leads to beach - shopping across street  

• Rosewood on the Sound - Bayville - Assisted Living and Enhanced Assisted Living.  Semi-private or private suites.  59 Bayville Avenue - 516-628-1350

• $ Oyster Bay Manor - Oyster Bay - Affordable pricing - Assisted living and short stays available.  Starting price for shared studio - tiered pricing with care levels - Wellness staff - Dementia care is at Harbor House (see memory care category).  

• Plattduetsche Home Society - Lynbrook - Enriched housing   

Please verify services for the following Assisted Living-Long Island facilities: 

• Hoffmann Manor of Long Beach - 274 West Broadway Long Beach, NY (516) 431-1400 - 194 units
  
  
• Abbey Island Park Manor - Island Park - 4029 Long Beach Road Island Park, NY (516) 678-388 - 99 units

Independent/Assisted With Memory Care in Nassau County

• Harbor House - Oyster Bay - Caring for seniors who have Alzheimer's, dementia and memory impairment. Mass at St. Dominic's. Monthly rent rate. Medium range. Semi-private and private rooms. Short stays available. 136 units.  
• Somerset Gardens - Plainview - Assisted living, memory care and respite program. Beautiful grounds and gardens.  
  
  
• The Arbors at Westbury in Jericho - Jericho NY - Independent, assisted living and personal care for extra attention and memory care. 200 units.  45 Jericho Turnpike, Jericho NY 

• Bristal at East Meadow

40 Merrick Avenue
Independent, Assisted and Memory Care
Studios, 1 and 2 Bedrooms, Penthouse
516-279-5664

• Bristal at Massapequa

400 County Line Rd.
Independent, Assisted, and Memory Care
Studios, 1 and 2 Bedrooms and Friendship Suites
516-629-5737

• Bristal at North Woodmere

477 Hungry Harbor Rd.
Independent, Assisted, and Memory Care
Studios, 1 and 2 Bedrooms and Friendship Suites
516-342-5013

• Bristal at Westbury

117 Post Avenue
Independent, Assisted, and Memory Care
Studios, 1 BR, Penthouse and Friendship Suites
516-342-3426

• Bristal at North Hills

99 South Service Rd.
Independent, Assisted, and Memory Care
Studios, 1 and 2 Bedrooms and Friendship Suites
516-629-5252

The Glen at Maple Pointe - Rockville Center by Chelsea Senior Living - Rockville Center - 83 units Assisted living, memory care and respite program - Medicaid assistance program (verify)

Combination: (Independent, Nursing, Assisted and Memory) - Nassau

Amsterdam during construction

• The Amsterdam at Harborside - Port Washington - Life Care community with all service levels.  You can be independent but have more services available, if needed, as you age.  Skilled nursing (medicare and medicaid).   Across from Harbor golf course. Amenities include pool, fitness and much more.  300 E. Overlook, Port Washington - 516-472-6610 - Open M-Sat (hours vary)

Learn more about Port Washington Amenities: See our review of Port Washington 

Nursing homes

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